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AlmightyRa · 11-08-2011 11:00 PM

Right. I've never been the most good looking guy. I'm ginger, talk, built pretty solid (not fat but just bulky) and what not.

However i've gotten really confident as of the past little while. I don't know what it is but you know.

Anyway it always seems that whenever i'm not in a relationship, girls like me more than when i'm single. I don't know what that is but ahwell.

But suddenly girls that used to not find me attractive are finding me hot as, and tons of girls are now throwing themselves at me. It's pissing me off because i'm a flirt by nature and i just can't help it, so i seem to lead them on without even meaning to or knowing that i am. My gf doesn't mind as she knows thats just who i am but its really annoying now.

For example, i was offered sex 3 times last week. At a dance last week this girl tried to grind up on me until i told her i wasn't single. Last night a girl tried to sort out a "meeting" with me in a car park.

Does anyone ever have this problem? Like this should be every guys dream but it's really not.....

alodia · 11-09-2011 09:49 PM

well, that's really unusual but not impossible. Maybe you're just one of the few guys out there who believes and applies faith and respect between relationships and that is why you're not interested having sex with other girls.
Girls are more interested w/ guys in a relationship I don't really know the reason but there's a psychological explanation for that, I believe.

AlmightyRa · 11-09-2011 09:57 PM

It's just so annoying. I've started cleaning myself up and working on my look. Guess i should have done that abit more before i got a GF and built up my confidence then.

OneEight7 · 11-09-2011 10:34 PM

hehe, i got the Same Problem, I got a Relationship for over a Year now, and there were more Offers for Sex then in my Whole Life before...

alodia · 11-10-2011 07:40 AM

Never imagined that it would be a problem to a guy well, I already personally accept that guys love to have sex most of the time even outside the relationship. Im proud of those guys who can control themselves from having sex with someone whom he's not committed to.